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Tearing Down the Stronghold of Titles

Tearing Down the Stronghold of Titles

People I love have been set up to fail because of the unrealistic expectations I place on their titles. In the same way, I’ve set myself up to fail. But there is freedom to be found.

Eden's Birth Story

Eden's Birth Story

Through the blur of my tears, I saw a tiny head of dark hair, and I heard her powerful cry.

Is Adopted vs. Was Adopted

Is Adopted vs. Was Adopted

It’s an argument carried on by adoptees and parents alike, and opinions differ widely. Many people who were adopted believe that their adoptions are a defining characteristic of who they are, while others recognize their adoption as a one-time event, and a less defining aspect of their lives.

The Introduction: Part 1

The Introduction: Part 1

If you think you know what a bear hug feels like, you don’t.  All the time I had spent wondering if we were supposed to shake hands or just go in for the hug became pointless as soon as she walked through the door.  Instead of thought, something very close to instinct took over.  I clutched onto her like she would disappear if I let go.